There are still a few weeks of summer left ahead of us and I love feeling the sun’s rays on my skin after having rested and recharged myself. I would like to give a big thanks to Réka, Csaba and Csaba junior for making it possible for me to enjoy the scent of the sea, its sky-blue color and its healing force for hours and hours. And then hour after hour, day after day I was able to rid my mind of those things for which time has passed and are now unnecessary just for the sake of making room for new ideas, new plans and new projects.
Do you remember? At the beginning of the year, I wrote the first part of this blog titled “Should I love myself, really?” I hope that in the time that has past, those of you who said that you don’t love yourself, have given yourself a chance! I left off then with “And then when I get used to being as kind, polite, courteous, sweet, friendly, helpful and empathetic to myself as I am with others, I slowly realize that “oh, I think – surprisingly - I love myself!” And what could be better at the end of a story than a “Happy end”! :o))) But just so that we excitedly await the next episode! :o)))”
And what is the next episode at this point? I mean, if we love ourselves, then we get our balance? We can easily find the person with whom we can live this harmony together well, as well :o) Of course it happens that it doesn’t come together at first, just on the second or perhaps the third try. This is why it is worth getting to know and loving ourselves as soon as possible :o)))
You know – we can’t rewrite the past, but we can learn a lot from it. Perhaps you have already seen the movie “Love, Rosie” I would like to quote from the main character, Rosie’s, wedding speech to Alex, the other main character, the following lines:
“Choosing a... Choosing the person that you want to share your life with... ls one of the most important decisions that any of us makes. Ever.
Because when it's wrong, it turns your life to grey. And sometimes... Sometimes you don't even notice until you wake up one morning and realize years have gone by.
We both know about that one, Alex.”
After a bad relationship or marriage, it is often very difficult to open our hearts up to the new. We are afraid to risk, but it is possible that it is precisely at this point when we see or meet the man or woman who will be the love of our lives. (No matter how unbelievable – I belong to those lucky ones with whom this has happened. <3) And then we feel that we would like to share our joys with them and ask about their opinions and experiences, talk about the big questions of the world or just sit, side by side … hand in hand …
And the bravest ones unite their lives together :o) … sometimes even officially :o). Marina and Gábor have made this decision.
I would like to wish them
tons of happiness
with the following lines from The First Letter of Paul to the Corinthians:
“The Hymn to Love
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.
2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.
3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part,
10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears.
11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.
12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love.
But the greatest of these is love.”
PS: Astroscope (ancient horoscope) tells us what kind of energy allows us to live the happiest life and to cooperate at the highest level. And if you have already found that person in the physical world :o) the synastry (the comparison of two people’s astroscopes) shows how it is possible to live TOGETHER in the greatest harmony and to get through hard times quickly and bring out the best from difficult situations! If you would like to know more about this, please do not hesitate to contact me! :o))